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Stop Surviving Your Life and Start Designing It
I get it, I’ve been in your shoes and know what it feels like:

If you're queer, BIPOC, trans, neurodivergent, or hold any marginalized identity, you know this feeling all too well...
Monday mornings feel like death because you have to put your mask back on and pretend to be someone you're not just to survive
You're exhausted from code-switching and hiding parts of yourself in professional and social spaces
Weekends become self-destruction cycles of overindulging, overspending, or numbing behaviors because you're so disconnected from who you really are
You feel like an imposter everywhere – too much for some spaces, not enough for others
You're following productivity advice and success blueprints designed by and for people who don't share your identities or experiences
You're tired of relationships that require you to be smaller, quieter, or "easier" to maintain
You dream of financial freedom but feel trapped in systems that seem designed to keep people like you struggling
You're not broken. The systems you've been trying to fit into are broken.

The old way is waking up monday morning feeling miserable and it doesn’t work because it’s only causing you more pain, grief, and you barely recognize who you truly are anymore...
Instead, you want to start feeling energized and like you can be authentically you again, so that you can finally be the best version of yourself, unapologetically.
The Whole Life Revolution program will get you out of self-destructive pattens way faster and easier than anything you’ve tried in the past...
And the best part?
It actually works, so you know you’re not wasting your time or money on outdated old-school methods that just cause you more stress and pain because they just weren't build with you in mind.

Once you start The Whole Life Revolution, you’ll never go back. Here’s why:

Map your masking patterns, reconnect with your authentic self, and calculate the true cost of hiding who you are. Today you stop shrinking and start claiming your space.

Identify white supremacy culture programming in your daily life, detox from people-pleasing patterns, and reclaim rest as revolutionary resistance.

Distinguish trauma responses from authentic personality traits, learn nervous system regulation for marginalized identities, and rewrite your story from survivor to thriver.

Transform your identity from "niche" to "needed," build unshakeable confidence in your unique value, and create opportunities instead of waiting for permission.

Audit relationships through an authenticity lens, master boundary-setting for marginalized identities, and magnetize connections that celebrate your whole self.

Design rhythms that honor your unique needs, create financial strategies that support authentic living, and build career paths that celebrate your intersectional identity.

Understand your role in collective liberation, create sustainable practices for lifelong authenticity, and craft your personal manifesto for ongoing revolutionary living.



Dreading Monday mornings because you have to put your professional mask back on
Exhausted from people-pleasing and accommodating everyone else's comfort
Following one-size-fits-all advice that wasn't designed for your brain, body, or circumstances
Trapped in survival mode, living paycheck to paycheck while your dreams collect dust

Excited about your work because it celebrates and leverages your authentic identity
Energized by relationships that celebrate your whole self and boundaries that protect your sacred energy
Living by systems you designed that honor your authentic needs and natural rhythms
Building multiple income streams aligned with your values while creating generational wealth

The #1 Program for QTPOC + Neurodivergent Folks Who Want To Live A Fully Enriched, Authentic Life
7 Days of Life-Changing Content ($997 value)
4 Revolutionary Bonuses ($1,200+ value)
Weekly Live Support Sessions ($600 value)
$497 Regular Price


Quick regulation techniques for workplace triggers, scripts for responding to microaggressions, and self-advocacy templates for various situations.

Curated music for each day's energy and themes, songs by and for marginalized communities, playlists for confidence, healing, and celebration.

Books, articles, and resources by marginalized authors, continued learning materials for ongoing growth.

Direct access to course facilitator, real-time problem-solving and support, community celebration and witness.

"I went from dreading Monday mornings to actually being excited about my work because I finally built a career that celebrates who I am instead of asking me to hide. This course didn't just change my life, it saved it."

"For the first time in my life, I have relationships that don't require me to be smaller or quieter. I learned the difference between accommodation and love, and it revolutionized everything."

"This course taught me that my ADHD brain isn't broken, it just needs different systems. I stopped trying to force myself into neurotypical productivity models and started designing life around how I actually work. Game changer."
You might be asking yourself: “Who’s Victoria + Destinē?”

The truth is... we used to really struggle with the "Monday Blues" not too long ago.
We tried everything to feel better during the week and conform to their expectations. However, we were numbing ourselves because all we ever wanted was to be happy about our work and be fully us, recognized for our worth.
But it wasn’t until we discovered how to stop surviving our lives and start designing it, that we finally started seeing some results.
Since then, We’ve been able to:
Live the fullest version our selves
Create a life that we truly love
Help our QTPOC + Neurodivergent fam overcome humiliation and start living the life they deserve
Now we want to help you achieve the same!
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We’re currently doing a special deal, but it’s ending soon so join now before prices go up from $97 to $497.
This course is designed for busy, overwhelmed people who are tired of living someone else's life. Each day requires only 60-90 minutes, and you can complete it at your own pace. The question isn't whether you have time—it's whether you can afford to keep living inauthentically
Absolutely. This course isn't about immediately quitting your job or making dramatic life changes. It's about gradually creating more alignment between your authentic self and your life circumstances. Many participants see profound shifts while staying in their current situations.
I understand financial concerns, especially for marginalized people who often face economic discrimination. That's why we offer payment plans and sliding scale scholarships. The real question is: what's the cost of continuing to live inauthentically? This investment pays for itself when you start creating opportunities from your authentic self.
This is one of the most common fears, and we address it extensively in the course. You'll learn how to love people from a distance when necessary, build chosen family, and navigate family relationships while staying true to yourself. Your community might surprise you—many people are waiting for someone to model authentic living.